Thriving or Surviving

By Tim Reese

The song Thrive by Casting Crowns includes the lyrics:Casting Crowns wrote 'Thrive'

“We know we were made for so much more than ordinary lives
It’s time for us to more than just survive
We were made to thrive”

In life and ministry I have often found myself just surviving when overwhelmed by life’s demands, a need for personal spiritual growth, family responsibilities, ministry needs, and a changing workplace environment.

All too often it seems as if I am just trying to survive-to balance all life’s demands, to keep my head above water.  When I heard this song I could not help but think of my own life and wonder why I do not feel like I am thriving. Are we really made to thrive?  As I wrestled with this for a few days, God began revealing to me that we are! In 1 Peter 2:16 God says “Live as people who are free…as servants of God”.

Thrive: to grow or develop well.

We need to keep the definition of thrive in mind. It is not a feeling or status in our culture but rather a status with God. When we look at Jesus’ life, we can see that He thrived and did not try to just get by. We cannot say that we have more on our plate than He had. With family turmoil, social turmoil, and the knowledge on the upcoming sacrifice for the world’s sins, He really did have the world on His shoulders.

So how do we thrive? Here are three suggestions.

1.  Listen to God and others. For me this is a learned task that I am still learning. A lot of stress in this life can be decreased if we would listen to God and those around us. This helps us work through life situations by not trying to take on problems by ourselves, but by praying and listening for God’s direction. All too often we talk at God and not with Him. We also need to listen to those around us. For example: when my wife has a problem I feel the need to fix it. (Often without listening to her actual needs, I am already ahead of her and assessing the problem that I think she needs “fixed”.) Jesus says in John 18:37 “Everyone who is of the truth listens to my voice.” An important part to thriving and not just surviving is to hear what it is that God wants us to say or do in all situations.  We also need to be listening to those around us to see what they need and how we need to respond to them. Whether that is with our spouse, kids, co-workers or fellow brothers or sisters in Christ, we must listen.

2. List your priorities. A way to reduce anxiety and to thrive is to prioritize our life. What’s most important? “The Enemy of the best is the good. ” -Jerry Rice. As pastors and leaders within the Church it is easy to become so busy with many “good” things that we become God's Word makes it plain that we are to thriveoverwhelmed and miss out on God’s best calling for our lives.

Listening to God’s Word shows us what should be our first and second priorities in Matthew 22:37 & 39 “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” God says that we are to love our neighbors as ourselves. If we are not loving ourselves and are neglecting our needs and our family’s needs because we are so busy loving everyone else then that is neglecting what scripture teaches on how we are to lead our lives. When we put those two highest on our list of priorities then we will be in a mindset to follow God’s perfect direction in all other areas of our lives. Thus, being able to grow (thrive) in Him.

3. Live life accordingly. In order to thrive, or to grow and develop well, we must live both in God’s promises and in His perfect will.  We see just as God promised Joshua that He would not leave or forsake him, so we can trust that He will also be with us! We are NOT alone and we need to cherish and trust that promise. Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 10:31 that whatever we do, do all to the glory of God.  In all situations in our lives if we are going to thrive, then our aim must be to glorify our Creator and Savior! Without that we are not going to grow and mature as God desires.  He has plans for all of us. The question is:  Are we listening for God’s guidance in those plans? Are we making God’s plans a priority?  And are we living out those plans?

When we look at the world’s definitions of thriving, (big house, nice car, good paying job) we will always fall short and be discontent with our lives. The world’s definition is a moving target.  When John D. Rockefeller was asked the question, “How much money is enough?” his response was, “Just a little bit more. ” This will be our answer as well if we are living by the world’s definition of thrive.  As Christians, we will be frustrated with God because in our eyes we aren’t thriving like we think we should. In reality, God reveals how He wants us to thrive in 1 Peter 2:2 “Like newborn infants, long for the spiritual milk, that by it you may grow up into salvation”. God wants us to be with Him! How much more thriving could we need?  God created us to be in a thriving relationship with Him. Are you trying to just survive this life on your own or thrive in an intimate relationship with your Savior?

Originally from central Illinois Tim Reese came to Christ at White River Youth Camp after moving to Southwest Missouri. He and his wife have served in youth ministry at Nixa General Baptist Church since 2011.

8 Ways to Help Your Church Maintain a Missional Focus (Part 2)

By John M Galyen

Since its inception, the church has been focused on outward expansion.  We seek to win people to Christ, not just to have bigger churches or more volunteers for ministry, but because we serve a missionary God who is in the sending business.  God sent his Son to redeem us and provide a relationship with himself.  Now he sends the Church to spread the good news of Jesus Christ to a world in desperate need of a Savior.

The local church is charged with the responsibility of spreading the gospel both locally and globally.  For many churches and church leaders this may seem like an impossible task.  How can a small church is Arkansas, or Missouri, or Kentucky reach the world with the gospel?  Obviously, no church can single-handedly reach the world, but we each have a part to play in God’s plan to redeem every nation, tribe, and tongue.  As a pastor, I want to make sure my church is engaged in local ministry, but I also want to lead them to give to, pray for, and go to all nations because this is what we are called to do.  Last week, I outlined 4 ways that church leaders can help their congregation stay focused on the true mission of the church.  This week, I will go over 4 other ways to keep missions in the forefront of your church’s mind.

5. Read Scripture in Different Languages

Another important part of worship is Scripture reading.  In his book, Worship Matters, author Bob Kauflin suggests a creative way to use Scripture readings to emphasize God’s mission:  Have someone read Scripture in a different language.  This helps remind people that there are believers all across the globe who are worshiping the same God we serve.  If you have a member who can read Spanish, or French, or Russian, invite them to do a reading and then have someone else read the same passage in English.  Though few people in the service may understand the foreign language, they will appreciate the creative reminder that God is not limited in the ways we are and that someday a great crowd will gather around the heavenly throne to proclaim God’s praise in every language.

6. Flags or Banners

Flags or banners can be used to visually remind the church of its missional focus.  The church I serve is planning to hang flags for each country that a member of our congregation has visited on a mission trip.  Over the past couple of years, we have had teams or individuals serve in eight different countries.  We will spend a whole service hanging these flags and reminding the congregation of our missionary missionstask as we point them to the God who “so loved the world that he gave his only Son.”  The flags are not mere trophies celebrating our achievements, but are intended to remind our people of the unfinished task of reaching the world, and to encourage them to pray that the good news will spread widely through these particular nations.  Such a display will not only remind the congregation of their calling, but will also let visitors know that yours is a local church with a global vision.

7.Guest Speakers

Inviting special guests, such as stateside missionaries, is another way to promote a missional focus in your church.  This takes a bit of planning and promotion, but General Baptist missionaries love to visit local churches to share about their work.  During the summer, many missionaries come home to attend the Summit, meaning your church has the incredible opportunity to hear from an active missionary fresh off the field.  Missionaries usually need more notice than you average guest speaker, so consider contacting the International Missions department (www.generalbaptist.com or 573-785-7746) early in the summer to see what missionaries are available to speak to your church while they are home.  Have them share about their work and challenge your church to get more involved with GB missions.

Four young women from our church went on the Women’s Ministries mission trip to India last October.  When they share with our church about GB work in this faraway land, our church responded by voting to financially support the Vemulas.  Recently, Jessey and Brittany Vemula were able to join us on a Sunday morning to share about what God is doing in India.  Again, our church responded by increasing their support for the Vemula’s ministry.  Hearing from an actual missionary on the field is very powerful.  Give you people that change so they can get a glimpse of what God is doing around the world and how they can join Him.

8.  Budgeting & Special Offerings

Your church’s budget reflects your priorities.  Read that sentence again.  Sobering, isn’t it?  Churches spend a lot of money each year on Sunday School literature, media presentations, activities, and local outreach.  None of those things are bad.  But in order for our budgets to be biblically balanced, we need to spend our resources reaching people both locally and globally.  That may mean leading your church to participate in Unified Giving or the annual Ed Steven’s Day Offering.  Ideally, each GB church will do both.  You can teach the kids (and adults) in your church about missions by designating your VBS offering to the annual GBIM project (this year’s project is a new van for Faith Home).  Whatever your level of giving, make sure your church is supporting mission causes that are focused on sharing the gospel and planting churches in unreached areas of the world.  When you give to missions, you are not just donating; you are investing in someone’s eternity.

This list is by no means exhaustive.  I encourage you to think of other ways you could lead your church to maintain a missional focus.  What is more important is that each General Baptist church establishes and maintains a commitment to spreading the gospel at home and abroad.  Our calling to spread the gospel is not an either/or proposition.  We cannot choose whether to reach people at home or around the world.  Every church is called to do whatever it can, by God’s grace, to take the whole gospel to the whole world.

John is the pastor of Leigh’s Chapel General Baptist Church in Greenville, Kentucky, where he has served for the past 8 years.  He is married, and has four sons.  For more information about General Baptist International and National work, visit www.generalbaptist.com or call 573-785-7746. 

8 Ways to Help Your Church Maintain a Missional Focus (Part 1)

By John M Galyen

Since its inception, the church has been focused on outward expansion.  We seek to win people to Christ, not just to have bigger churches or more volunteers for ministry, but because we serve a missionary God who is in the sending business.  God sent his Son to redeem us and provide a relationship with himself.  Now he sends the Church to spread the good news of Jesus Christ to a world in desperate need of a Savior.

The local church must maintain a missional focus, for both local and global missions.The local church is charged with the responsibility of spreading the gospel both locally and globally.  For many churches and church leaders this may seem like an impossible task.  How can a small church is Arkansas, or Missouri, or Kentucky reach the world with the gospel?  Obviously, no church can single-handedly reach the world, but we each have a part to play in God’s plan to redeem every nation, tribe, and tongue.  As a pastor, I want to make sure my church is engaged in local ministry, but I also want to lead them to give to, pray for, and go to all nations because this is what we are called to do.  There are at least eight ways church leaders can encourage their churches to maintain this missional focus.

1. Preaching

Pastors have a tremendous opportunity to influence their church’s understanding of missions.  You might consider having an annual “Missions Day” at your church where the entire service, including the sermon, is focused on informing and challenging the congregation to live a missional life.  If you are the pastor, either prepare a message that speaks to the Church’s calling to share the gospel, or invite a GBIM staff member to come talk to your church about how they can get involved in international missions.

2. Promote Mission Opportunities

When is the last time you publicized General Baptist mission opportunities in your church?  General Baptists provide numerous opportunities for mission involvement throughout the year.  The Mission Volunteer Program (MVP) plans trips to countries like Mexico, Honduras, the Philippines, and India, among others.  You can learn about these opportunities from the weekly Leadership Team emails, The Messenger, or by contacting GBIM.  Promoting these trips provides church members with valuable information, but also gives them the sense that they can become personally involved in what General Baptists are doing around the world.

3. Testimonies

As people from your church take advantage of these MVP opportunities, you will want to provide them the chance to share their experiences.  One of the greatest advertisements for missions in the local church is a testimony from someone who has “been there and done that.”  Hearing from a fellow church member who just got back from a trip where she worked in a clinic and shared gospel with people in another context can be a very impactful way to remind people of our Great Commission calling.  A testimony service is also a great way to glorify God and let the church know what the team members did while on the mission field.  It can be a fantastic way to remind the church that missions are an important part of your church culture.

4. Prayer

Prayer is an important part of our worship.  As we gather from Sunday to Sunday, one way to help people stay focused on the Church’s mission is to include a time of prayer that focuses on a person, country, or people group that needs to hear the good news.  You could spend a little time doing this each Sunday, or set aside a special prayer time monthly or quarterly.  If your church is sponsoring a GB missionary, do more than just mail in your check.  Take time to pray from them and the work God has called them to do.  You can even make your people aware of Operation World or joshuaproject.net so they can pray for foreign nations during their personal quiet time.

John is the pastor of Leigh’s Chapel in Greenville, Kentucky, where he has served for the past 8 years.  Check back on Thursday for Part 2 of his article on the Church’s mission.